TW: Lesbophobia
This is going to be a rather lesbophobic post, if because it’s going to rub them the wrong way. If because it points out something most will not admit in any way, I think if people didn’t want their daughters to come out as lesbian or bisexual there must be something wrong with the way they raised them. But in the sense of having stumbling blocks, like say they get aroused by women when they shouldn’t be (according to the Bible). The Bible has a verse that says if something makes you lust, take it away. It’s this simple, but people will not admit or realise in any way. I think by saying women’s bodies are beautiful actually make it harder for certain women to not lust after women, if because that treats them as sexually desirable when they shouldn’t be for some people.
In this regard, you’d have to treat lesbians like you do with drug addicts. Say this woman doesn’t want to be attracted to women anymore, all you have to do’s to take away the offending material and also not giving into it either. Because this culture sexualises and objectifies women a lot, it makes it harder for some women to not be this sexually attracted to women. Like you don’t want to smoke cigarettes, but everybody else around you does. Because everybody does it, it makes it harder to avoid temptation. So the Bible says that we shouldn’t hang out with such characters if we get tempted, same goes for lesbianism. I don’t think people will be comfortable realising this, even if it’s necessary to weed out possible lesbianism this way.
I imagine some women will disagree with this, but if you have a daughter who’s sexually attracted to women and you don’t want her to come out as gay yet you have offending material that sexualises women a lot (even fine art paintings can be tempting for certain people), all you have to do’s to get rid of the latter as not to encourage or tempt the former. The Bible has a verse that says about training up kids the right way, which they should. It’s like what you do with alcohol if you don’t want somebody drunk. If only people knew this, one stitch would save many more in time. People will not admit it, even if it’s necessary as nobody wants their daughter to come out as a lesbian.
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