Celestial doesn’t mince God’s words when it comes to the subject matter of adultery and any other sexual perversion in marriage and to some extent, dating for as long as there’s no premarital sex involved. No masturbation and reading or consuming pornographic materials whatsoever, that people who indulge in disturbing sexual fantasies will be punished a lot for defiling God’s plan for marriage. This includes rape fantasies, which is present in some stories. Including those that are bestsellers that I think a number of Colleen Hoover fans will not be pleased to hear, if because the things the characters indulge in are against the Lord.
There’s this passage of a presumably male character who indulges in voyeurism when fantasising about a woman, while being sexually attracted to women when male (or vice versa) isn’t necessarily bad in and of itself but if lust is a sin then voyeurism/scopophilia is one of them. Then we get to another book of hers where another character indulges in adultery, another sex act forbidden by the Lord that it’s horrifying her own books have outsold the Bible! This is symptomatic of a fallen society where stories that glorify sexual sins without having the characters face consequences for their actions (or made ashamed of them at the very least).
It’s not hard to see where criticisms of Hoover’s works are coming from, though not necessarily in ways they’re aware of or think. Fornicators/perverts, cheaters and their ilk aren’t going to inherit the Kingdom of Heaven unless if they repent and change their ways from following God or at least doing their best in doing so, but the problem is a good number of stories that America churns out encourages or glorifies these acts. Not just blatant pornography but also books that are widely consumed and enjoyed by those at a formative age that it will give them the wrong impression of what it’s like to be in a loving, mature relationship.
I feel a number of romance books and the like are prone to this in some way or another, like there’s a tendency to see M/M romance stories as liberating even though the Lord and the Bible both look down on homosexuality. It’s as if many of the things these women find sexually liberating actually enslave them to sin, far more than they should be doing that they could risk defiling the marriage bed not just with their husbands, but also their boyfriends if they’re going to marry them at all. For those who don’t want to be married, don’t read these books at all and don’t indulge in any sinful sex act and fantasy either.
Then we get to the subject of affairs which appear in whatever form and are called by whatever people feel like describing and naming those, though I feel a number of celebrities and the like might indulge in some form of adultery. Well not publicised and reported in any way at least for now, but I have the nagging feeling that one of the Backstreet Boys will be outed for having an affair with a fan or younger woman that he’s going to beat up his wife when she finds this out. Then we get to luminaries condoning forms of non-consensual monogamy like polyamory and swinging, which will become more public and commonplace.
Even supposedly wholesome celebrities will be outed for this, be it a secret affair as it will be with Nick Carter, polyamory with other celebrities or how Taylor Swift stole another woman’s boyfriend and why she never seems to settle with any one man in her life. Pardon if it seems like I’m slutshaming Swift but I don’t think Katy Perry has scored that many men in her life, despite her more sexualised public image that one would wonder if Swift might be less vanilla in person. If this is true, then she embodies the phrase ‘lady in the streets, freak in the sheets’. Pretty contrary to her wholesome public persona, when you consider her love life.
This gets me into considering what I should do with my own characters, especially when lust gets brought up in some way that while they struggle with it, somebody tells them not to give into it anymore and/or face the consequences of their actions. Or with those characters who lust that their actions are clearly bad and reflect badly on them, especially if others find out about what they’re up to and it’s not going to be pretty. Perhaps I use depict them in ways that uphold Christian values and beliefs, even if they sin and/or stumble from time to time. It’s one thing to have a character lust, it’s another to have a character struggle with lust and eventually unlearning it if they’re shamed for doing it.
But I feel it’s not something a lot of writers are capable of depicting, even if it upholds Christian values better in the sense that humans always struggle with the flesh due to original sin. I also feel these kinds of characters and stories are needed in a world of ever-growing immorality because it seems the way some authors write their stories glorify or romanticise sexual sin a lot, especially if characters are neither shamed for doing it nor do they face consequences for their actions. Nor if their actions are shown reflecting badly on them, especially if they seem to be good and trusted by the public. This is another way of knowing how bad things are going.
I’m afraid there might be a rise in romance stories and the like where not only rape fantasies are paraded but also sex with demons, more sadistic sex acts, polyamory, swinging and so on and so forth that Colleen Hoover’s own works being popular with young girls is a worrying sign of where things are heading. It would give them the wrong idea of sex when they do get into romantic and marital relationships with men, that it seems the depraved sex acts give them a glimpse into a rather sinful world. That she portrayed a character fantasising about seeing a woman naked feels like she’s glorifying voyeurism instead of a loving relationship between servant and leader.
The more the world glorifies sinful sex acts and lust, the worst these stories will get where it’s not enough to have rape fantasies. We’ll eventually get to things that the Marquis de Sade would have easily cooked up and it will be enjoyed by teenage girls, Colleen Hoover’s a sign of worse things to come because of her stories’ popularity with those people.