I still think characters like Kitty Pryde and Tim Drake suffer from a serious sense of cognitive dissonance in how contrived they are. The former’s supposed to be a normal woman yet barely does things most women relate to at times. It’s not that she lacks flaws (she’s got a hot temper) but that they went too far with her. I actually think she’d a doable anti-heroine had they excised the hacking and dragon thing for good.
(Some already did in a way with things like X-Men Evolution, Wolverine and the X-Men and the X-Men movies.)
She actually got properly portrayed as an assassin in the Age of Apocalypse storyline but apparently not much as it’s apocryphal. Missed opportunity since that’s taking where she’d logically go considering her power and training. (Probably because making her into an assassin, though much more realistic, doesn’t seem to sit well with others never mind her training and temper.)
As for Tim Drake, he hardly comes off as a normal lad at times. Not to mention some of the things Tim goes through seem more realistic had he been a girl. More people lose their heads over a woman losing her virginity than if a man did the same. (There’s a reason why slut-shaming’s a big deal.)
But that’s also implying that Tim’s just not that good of a character as some make him out to be. Like he’s really pandering and not to mention hypocritical in that writers paint him as a virgin never mind that he had sex with three women (Ariana, Stephanie, Lynx) whilst there are characters in JJBA who never date or flirt with women and it’s not much made into a big deal (as far as I recall, I could be nitpicking).
At least there’s more evidence for Jotaro Kujo being virginal/celibate (he’s revealed to have a daughter much later on) longer and better than Tim does. Maybe not necessarily clean (Jotaro may’ve wanked) but given he doesn’t date women for a long time, at least Jotaro seems more believable when it comes to his lack of sexual activity with other people.
It’s not so much that comics aren’t real but that there needs more believability and credibility to such portrayals, otherwise it falls flat.