I still think when it comes to wanting a relationship with God, it seems Christians have a hard time realising he could get angry real badly and can even be spiteful. To put it this way, Kitty Pryde in the comics was initially shown to have a really bad temper, whiny and stuff and still is to some extent. However assuming if people keep screwing up around her that she’s going to lose her cool and beat people up.
Same thing with Stephanie Brown where if she’s stated to be easily offended, that’s the same thing with God. Imagine if Tim Drake kept on bullying her and killing her pets that she’s going to lose her cool and beat him up. She could go all Red Lantern and get mad at the people who bullied her a lot. God is also that vindictive. (If Black Canary is Tim’s aunt and if Tim screwed up, she will get mad too.)
If sometimes loving a person involves accepting them as they are, perhaps it’s time to accept that God has an explosive temper and there’s little people can do about it.